I mean that really depends if you're talking about a bouncy soft thicc booty vs a ripped walnut-cracking amazonian ass.

In general, women tend to have more skeketal fat than men, especially around the lower abdomen, hips, and butt, while men have more viceral fat (around the organs). Anatomically, women's skin is also thinner, by up to 1/4in.

While it absolutely varies greatly by person, chances are that a woman's butt will feel softer and potentially more pillowy than yours. But the only legit way to find out is to find women who will consent to your scientific experiment.

Touching your own feels different than others, as you have both sides feelings at once.

But should you in a double blind test grab lets say 500 butts, with no other clue than your hand on their cheeks, how correctly would you guess which butt is male and which is female?

softer