Pretty normal to get a bit leaky when turned on, yup.
If anybody wants to help out with moderating this, do also feel free to poke me!
If you find some, give me a hoot.
Right now my go-to source for listening material is doing site searches for soundgasm. Some are pretty long, (30-40mins) and there are even a couple of "CYOA" style entries.
None actually.
Maybe once per month? Probably less. I really tend to prefer audio and text.
Honestly? To a certain extent it makes gendered words fairly useless as broadly descriptive words. Instead it lands on the level of names. The meaning remaining is a word someone chose for themselves. This, in turn, also makes the gender-based words for sexuality broadly useless.
Looking at myself for instance - I could quite possibly be sexually attracted to someone who had fully female sexual characteristics while identifying as a man, whilst I've never found myself attracted to a person with fully male or even someone with a rather small subset of visible male sexual characteristics identifying as a woman.
What does that mean for my sexual orientation? I don't know. I usually describe it as hetero/straight, simply because that is what most often fits and I have more important problems to think about, so good enough.
Probably not any relationship at all since monogamy is a prerequisite for me. I think the furthest I could stretch is someone who does solo content (whether video or audio).
Well as we say in the Fediverse, you want it, you make it :)
Technically I don't think it's against the rules of FediNSFW to self-promote, only to do so in comms that prohibit it. Most comms here are intended for non-commercial things (such as this one), and most people are here for that kind of content. However, it would probably be fine to make a community dedicated to commercial (paid) content, so long as it doesn't get spammy.
I mean sure, zombie novels do fit in here, but there's a wide group of options available.
Still, I think it gives a lot of options to explore both nsfw & romance themes mixed with others.
If you drop it in early there's the "World is ending let's have sex" start and then they end up surviving (awkward)
That does sound like fun!
I have been writing a bit of erotica through the times, mostly for my own enjoyment though as I've been too busy to consistently reply to writing partners (sad).
My themes have been varying, but one idea could be set in an apocalypse/post-apocalypse where two people end up finding solace in their mutual affection even in the face of a hopeless future.
I picture a struggle through the initial downfall where they keep going on pure adrenaline, surviving through horrors where others perish, being what keeps each other going. Then, the realization once things settle down that the world they now live in is what awaits them for the future, perhaps slowly falling into disrepair. Despair, sadness, hopelessness. Teetering on the edge of giving up. Then, they realize that they have each other, that they can cherish their time together, find joy and purpose. A brief stint of them beginning to work towards a livable existence. Cut to an epilogue, perhaps implying what came after.