[–] 2 points 1 month ago

Might just be my finger length, but I've only ever had to go to my middle finger joint to hit it. Putting my fingers all the way in would put the tips pretty far from the g-spot.

As an aside, you can also use your palm for clitoral stimulation while doing it.

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  • [–] 1 point 2 months ago (2 children)

    I'm pretty well endowed, so there's a battle over the blood supply.

    And that's not really the humble brag people think it is. Being too big has some major downsides, like not being able to be intimate with my wife more frequently than every 3 days, or for longer than 15 minutes, because anything more will cause pain. And BJs are mostly not an option because jaw pain.

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  • [–] 7 points 2 months ago

    In general, women tend to have more skeketal fat than men, especially around the lower abdomen, hips, and butt, while men have more viceral fat (around the organs). Anatomically, women's skin is also thinner, by up to 1/4in.

    While it absolutely varies greatly by person, chances are that a woman's butt will feel softer and potentially more pillowy than yours. But the only legit way to find out is to find women who will consent to your scientific experiment.

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  • [–] 2 points 2 months ago (4 children)

    They're a pain in the ass, tbh. I have to get a waist size higher just to be able to get pants over them without ripping them getting out of the car.

    I also suspect they're a major contributing factor in my ED. I'm fine during foreplay, until I get in a position where I have to use them.

    But I agree, getting to see the admiration is super gratifying.

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  • [–] 5 points 2 months ago (6 children)

    While I don't look for bulges, because I don't swing that way, I do wear slim fit pants tight enough to show mine off for those who like to look. I'd wear skinny jeans if my thighs weren't strangely muscular.

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  • [–] 4 points 2 months ago* (2 children)

    Depends on what type of porn. If it's an OF type thing that I can be involved in, sure. I even bought a DSLR with the foolish idea that my spouse with BDD would one day be willing to let me film us.

    My biggest concerns with a professional actor would be A) STDs, and B) the damage that's being done to their body from the hard pounding over several hours it requires to shoot a scene. A lesser concern is they probably wouldn't be up to having real sex with me for a day or two after shooting, but that ties into B

    I wouldn't have a jealousy issue, though.

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  • [–] 1 point 5 months ago (1 child)

    Honestly? Enthusiastic consent. I can overlook physical features that might not be my favorite if she's enthusiastic and direct about what she wants in bed.

    My wife is on the spectrum, so unfortunately while I know she is enthusiastically consenting in her own way, from an outside perspective it would seem like she's not at all into it.

    Her version of enthusiastic consent is, "if I didn't want to do it, I wouldn't." Which is fair, although it does cause me some anxiety. And yes, we've talked about it and she's working on being more obvious about it.

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