cis ppl will never understand the join of being literally physically afraid of the beach or pool for most of your life until transitioning. <3
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I tried on a 1 piece bathing suit with a little skirt the other day and it was adorable. I know it isnt quite the same as being able to wear a full on bikini but i def. got euphoria from wearing it :3
I wish it would only be the gock that gets in the way.
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Okay, this could be a source of dysphoria, but hear me out. Elephant-themed bottoms with a trunk out the front.
Super cute, no unsightly bulge, maintains other lines, and it can flap around adorably. Win win win win.
I'll accept a billion dollars and the First Annual Trans Ally of the Year Award. Thank you, thank you.
I actually like having a gock bulge. It looks fun for me
Fun fact: they held a Cyberpunk 2077 cosplay contest, and a cis lady with a glowstick in her pants won finalist.
i always think the same but then mine is sooo unaestetic ;w; it's a true tragedy
Is this really appropriate for this post? If a trans woman makes a post about having severe dysphoria about say, facial hair, and someone comes in and says, "well I'm a trans woman and I LOVE facial hair!" That kind of thing just seems really problematic to me.
Like what you like. No wrong way to be trans. But there's a time and a place. When someone clearly feels a discomfort about a part of their body, it feels tone deaf to come into their post and say, "I don't have that problem, I love (feature X!)" Perfectly valid of you to like what you like, but this doesn't feel like the right place to do it. Maybe make a gock celebration post if that's what you want to do. But in a post like this? It feels like rubbing their pain in their face.
People are allowed to have or not have dysphoria about body parts. We shouldn't shame trans women who want to keep their factory equipment. But we also shouldn't be gockposting in places it really isn't appropriate. Someone should be able to make a post expressing discomfort or dysphoria about their body without having multiple people jump in saying, "well I DON'T have that issue." That's fine if you don't have dysphoria about an issue. No need to come in and point out how you're not bothered by other people's troubles.
But what about all the gock lovers you’re missing out on?
I like girl bulge on others; I just don't want it on me
Is this really appropriate for this post? If a trans woman makes a post about having severe dysphoria about say, facial hair, and someone comes in and says, "well I'm a trans woman and I LOVE facial hair!" That kind of thing just seems really problematic to me.
Like what you like. No wrong way to be trans. But there's a time and a place. When someone clearly feels a discomfort about a part of their body, it feels tone deaf to come into their post and say, "Well I DON"T have that problem, I love (feature X!)" Perfectly valid of you to like what you like, but this doesn't feel like the right place to do it. Maybe make a gock celebration post if that's what you want to do. But in a post like this? It feels like rubbing their pain in their face.
People are allowed to have or not have dysphoria about body parts. We shouldn't shame trans women who want to keep their factory equipment. But we also shouldn't be gockposting in places it really isn't appropriate. Someone should be able to make a post expressing discomfort or dysphoria about their body without having multiple people jump in saying, "well I DON'T have that issue." That's fine if you don't have dysphoria about an issue. No need to come in and point out how you're not bothered by other people's troubles.
Bottom surgery is amazing. I'm super happy with Mine. They tell you not to overestimate the benefits, but I'm so much calmer now!
Wish I could've had a true slut phase. I would've been a fucking problem as a cis girl
I don't mind it.
Is this really appropriate for this post? If a trans woman makes a post about having severe dysphoria about say, facial hair, and someone comes in and says, "well I'm a trans woman and I LOVE facial hair!" That kind of thing just seems really problematic to me.
Like what you like. No wrong way to be trans. But there's a time and a place. When someone clearly feels a discomfort about a part of their body, it feels tone deaf to come into their post and say, "I don't have that problem, I love (feature X!)" Perfectly valid of you to like what you like, but this doesn't feel like the right place to do it. Maybe make a gock celebration post if that's what you want to do. But in a post like this? It feels like rubbing their pain in their face.
People are allowed to have or not have dysphoria about body parts. We shouldn't shame trans women who want to keep their factory equipment. But we also shouldn't be gockposting in places it really isn't appropriate. Someone should be able to make a post expressing discomfort or dysphoria about their body without having multiple people jump in saying, "well I DON'T have that issue." That's fine if you don't have dysphoria about an issue. No need to come in and point out how you're not bothered by other people's troubles.
Brought two body suits with a little skirt on both and went in the pool on holiday. First time
In over a decade I’ve worn swimwear, or been in or near a pool. Part of the iddie bitty titty committee and only use my femme voice for either femme purposes…or when dealing with phone related issues. Only got misgendered once by an employee who wasn’t completely fluent in English, but he corrected himself eventually. Highly recommend. Obvi I’d love to wear a bikini, but the euphoria from just that alone was incredible. It’s scary, but small steps towards it makes it all the easier. Especially when most people will be indifferent or accepting. The right luckily are a small vocal minority. Be careful, but remember most people will pay no mind or easily accept you’re also just a person trying to also enjoy water and weather.
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