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[–] 76 points 3 months ago (3 children)

I'm not sure what dyeing it would accomplish once it's not attached to her head anymore, but whatever makes her happy, I guess.

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  • [–] 36 points 3 months ago (2 children)

    Hahaha it's so common! I shaved my head after my divorce :D

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  • [–] 28 points 3 months ago (12 children)

    Shaved one side and dyed the rest purple over here. And I do mean the rest.

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  • [–] 12 points 3 months ago (8 children)

    Jells, i'm a redhead and would have to bleach the hell out of it so i never went beyond highlights.

    Now the white's creeping in i'm waiting for the ratio to tip so i can go ham

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  • [–] 9 points 3 months ago (6 children)

    With nothing but respect (and not trying to change your mind), red hair when it goes a little white is a FIERCE look, but why wait if you want to bleach it?

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  • [–] 6 points 3 months ago (5 children)

    I hate the smell and feel of bleach. I'm asd with smell as my RAEG trigger.

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    I definitely do not have ADHD. Partner does though! And a big trigger for him is sound.

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  • [–] 3 points 3 months ago (1 child)

    Oooohhh same. Smell too though but that might be the autism part idk.

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  • [–] 3 points 3 months ago*

    Honestly we ping all over the palace. ASD mate gets fussy about light levels and fluorescents. I dislike harsh lighting and polyester, but smells will instaraeg me. Partner trips on sounds. Neice (audhd) loses it at loud sounds, asd nephew hates certain tactile sensations and tastes. Everyone has their "i don't like it", neurodivergents just have a thinner layer of tolerance.

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  • [–] 27 points 3 months ago (10 children)

    Whacked it short and dyed it teal. XD

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  • [–] 14 points 3 months ago (9 children)

    Ohh teal! Such a cool hair color!

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  • [–] 9 points 3 months ago (8 children)

    I don't miss washing my hair in cold water to keep the colors vibrant, that's for sure haha

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  • [–] 6 points 3 months ago (7 children)

    I use this line of products to stop the fade. I’ve done both red and purple and I’m planning on doing teal in a few months. I only wash my hair once a week so I use this every other wash or so. When I go back to the salon it’s because I need the roots lightened, not because the color looks faded. https://celebluxury.com/

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  • [–] 4 points 3 months ago (6 children)

    Y'all seem like knowledgeable folk, so might as well ask here. Is there any way to get vibrant, colorful hair without bleaching? My hair is naturally brown and bleaching destroys it too much.

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  • [–] 3 points 3 months ago* (4 children)

    Yes! ...ish. You can try lightening it a little. You don't have to go for a full peroxide bleach. I have dark blonde hair and use arctic fox dyes which have great coverage. I can't get a bright colour because my hair isn't light enough, but it is vibrant. You could still do purples and reds really well.

    Tips I learned from hairstylists: Use a clarifying shampoo and no conditioner before dying, and wrap your head in a plastic bag after applying the dye. The warmth of your head and moisture trapped under the bag help the dye sink in.

    Then, I mix some leftover dye with my conditioner, let it sit for five minutes every time I shower, and rinse with cold water - this helps the colour last longer.

    For everything else, I have wigs. You don't need to spend a lot on a wig for a good, comfortable fit. My best one I got used from a drag queen for $20 and it's fabulous. I like being able to switch up my style without destroying my hair.

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  • [–] 2 points 3 months ago (2 children)

    As someone who has had super short vivid hair, for like 20+yrs...
    how do you wear a wig? I've peeked into them a couple times and got a bit overwhelmed. Do I need a cap thingy first? Also, how do you make sure it stays in place or the hairline edge thingy stays down?

    Also want to add to anyone getting into diy bold colors, petroleum jelly along the hairline, nape and ears before starting.
    Makeup remover is pretty good at removing any skin stains that do happen.
    And there are a few colored shampoo and/or conditioner brands that do great at keeping your colors bright (also good for layering/blending different colors!)

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  • [–] 2 points 3 months ago (1 child)

    I forgot the jelly/lotion part. Great for not staining your skin. Good tip.

    I use a wig cap which is essentially just a nylon hat and stuff all my hair underneath. I keep my hair short-ish so it's easier. I pin that and the wig down with regular bobby pins. If it's a lace front, meant to look like a natural hairline, I use wig glue and foundation to hide the lace. A good wig is one that fits nicely already and all the extra steps just help keep it down.

    Sometimes I just toss a wig on under a winter hat without all that if I feel like having long, outrageous pink hair on a cold day.

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  • [–] 2 points 2 months ago

    I'm late back to the party but, thank you!! That actually helps a lot!
    I keep my hair very, very short, its super fine and flat so short gives it a little more body. ... and sometimes I do want to "do my hair nice" but don't want to deal with all that hair daily, for random one-offs, lol.

    First/last time I looked into wigs, I was totally overwhelmed, with all the associated products and no guides on any of the seller's sites, on what to do with them all, or which may be needed. ...which is probably a little funny coming from someone who is totally at ease with mixing various hazardous chemicals to bleach and or color my own hair 😅

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  • [–] 2 points 3 months ago

    Thanks for the tips! I want to try with something not red, because the one time I did, I looked like a tomato (I didn't account for my face getting easily red) 😂😭 I actually love going full bleach, but it destroys my hair too much.

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  • [–] 2 points 3 months ago

    My hair is dark brown so it takes a good bit of lightening for vibrant color. I go to a stylist who specializes in fantasy hair color and she is knowledgable about lightening it without damaging it. She’ll even tell you that she’ll get you as close to what you want as possible but she’s going to work with what your hair can do and she isn’t going to push it too far just to get the exact shade of color. From what I can tell with anything that’s not bleach will only lighten a little bit, which isn’t ideal for vibrant color but will soften the brown

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  • [–] 9 points 3 months ago

    Maybe she committed a crime and is going into hiding

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  • [–] 8 points 3 months ago

    I hope she learned not to let people call her hero era her villain era

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  • [–] 4 points 3 months ago

    Abuse, and going into a safe-haven near the same area? Wouldn't be a first

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  • [–] 1 point 3 months ago

    Speaking from experience this is a thing and having been the cause of this at least once this is usually men that do it.

    You'll find black women who shave their heads can be to clean themselves from a bad relationship.

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