There was once a conversation at my work through which I discovered that most of my male coworkers enjoy baking (and yes, I also enjoy baking).

Simultaneously funniest and saddest part of that was one lady sitting through that conversation with thousand yards stare, who previously said that her husband, in terms of household chores, doesn't even know how to use washing machine.

If you’re cleaning the toilet and doing laundry regularly you’re already ahead of a lot of men.

There was a time that I had my slut-era post divorce and was seeing several different people. At one point, I was over at 3 different men's houses over the course of a couple days and not a single one of them had handsoap anywhere in their house. I had a laugh ngl.

But also maybe give the shower a scrub once in a while along with the toilet, yeah?

I like to cook and preserve food, so my kitchen is clean. Also keep up on the dishes and do the kitchen floor twice a week. If I leave clean laundry around that's where the dogs want to curl up and nap.

That is awesome thank you for sharing. I just took mine off the WiFi and hit the button when I want it to go but would be nice to be able to use all the other functions.

I hadn't heard about this thanks for sharing

I always recommend this book for anyone beating themselves up over housework:

How to Keep a House While Drowning by KC Davis

Thank you for that. A very kind thought.

That's a good tip there. Focus on one small part of the job you can get done without stressing out about the bits you didn't finish.