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[–] 1 point 1 hour ago (1 child)

Absolutely this!

I'm not particularly good looking and I've been overweight/unfit my entire life.

I have NEVER had problems getting dates or getting laid. I'm polyamorus these days, which narrows down the dating pool quite a bit and it still is not an issue.

The secret is just...be honest? Be authentic and treat people like people, regardless of their gender.

The bar really is low.

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  • [–] 1 point 11 minutes ago

    I agree. I am a pretty damaged person and always had weight problems, but after i turned 18, the first time i am single is now - i'm 45 now. Difference to the people i knew that always had problems finding a partner was mainly listening, treating women like everyone else, and having some fucking decency.

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