Phrasing is definitely important. I see many posts where it seems more like someone is looking for validation rather than advice. When those people don't get the responses they want to hear, they get defensive and double down.

Sometimes people just have shitty views with no intent to reflect on their views and get dog piled on. I personally have no problem with this. I think much of the world has gotten to soft of some demographics. For example, as an American (I only say this because it's becoming more prevalent, but it should be universal), I think anyone that comes out supporting white supremacy and Nazi ideals shouldn't get the benefit of understanding. They should be lambasted and ridiculed for being terrible people. If the masses quit giving these people credence, maybe they'd just go back into being closeted bigots instead of making everyone else miserable.