Is dressing provocatively and then getting sexually assaulted, and being actually inhumane/hateful and/or dumb enough to be swindled by someone who shares nothing with you besides an ethnocultural background the same, either in the moral weight of the action or the repercussions of the reaction? And, for the record, you're supposed to feel bad for both, just to different degrees.

Also, where is all of this coming from? If you believe women should be raped just for dressing a certain way (or for any reason whatsoever) and they don't "deserve" your sympathy, I cannot help you and I don't think anyone can. And God help the women in your life.