I come from a family with fairly rural roots. My parents were the only ones among their siblings to pursue college, and they raised me with an immense appreciation for education and the opportunities it brings. I currently hold a Masters degree in engineering and would like to pursue Law or an MBA in the future. My academic experience and qualifications are a significant part of who I am as an adult. As I continue to grow, I’ve noticed that it becomes harder to connect with some loved ones who are less educated and ultimately less adept at thinking critically and having discussions. I find that ideas, that to me are obvious, sometimes require significant effort from others to appreciate the full depth. Furthermore, I have also found that on average people are not interested in connecting with one another as deeply as I’m interested. For example, if I ask a question, I truly want to know the answer, I’m not just queuing up my own thoughts as response. I always try to be poetic and gracious when explaining these feelings because I’d imagine this would be received better than saying “I think people are dumb and hard to connect with”, but that’s how I feel a lot of times in plain English. I am interested in learning better ways to maintain relationships with people I may have these feelings my about.
Try "dumbing down" your language, though I've always hated that saying. Language is meant to convey thoughts and emotions, it's up to the dealer to decide how they speak. Edit: meant to say that there's no wrong way to speak so long as you convey what you need to.
That said, if you like the way you speak, try to be more emotionally expressive as you talk. Smile, frown, whatever. Not to a comical degree, mind you.
But the thing that's most important is, everyone is different. It takes a different approach and amount of effort for each one, so try not to generalize people too much.
And intelligence comes in many forms. Sometimes you gotta do a little digging to tease it out.