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[–] 63 points 3 days ago (4 children)

I need to know your assigned gender at birth

Why, are you trying to fuck me?

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  • [–] 11 points 3 days ago (3 children)

    why would they need to know for that tho?

    more like, "do u wanna categorize me back into a binary gender and misgender me in your head, cause u can't handle someone being nonbinary?"

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  • [–] 2 points 2 days ago (2 children)

    Well you I would like to now how much lube to take with me

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  • [–] 3 points 2 days ago* (1 child)

    then just ask that?

    or if u wanna know their genitals, ask that

    someones agab does not tell u how much lube u need

    altho if you try asking about their agab u might find out that u won't need any lube cause they won't wanna have sex with u

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  • [–] 1 point 1 day ago

    I mean I will definitely ask that because in BDSM you want to know a lot about your partner, especially medical records and problems. Even the biological sex and if they are or have taken hrt is very important because it changes muscle strength and "placement" which in turn changes how you can safely spank someone. Discovery in bdsm involves spreadsheets for me. When someone is against that I will not play with them.

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