This is like saying BLM protestors are responsible for how black people are treated because they're not murdering all cops so they didn't go far enough. Half the country is extremely transphobic and the other 30% are leery of it. If you want to be locked in a cage while ALSO having the deadliest war in recent history happen, because democrats aren't screaming their support for trans people and losing every election for it, be my guest.
Every prominent democrat I've seen has said trans people deserve to be treated fairly and that gender affirming care is medically necessary, and every republican I've seen has said that trans people are sick and mentally ill and shouldn't be around kids. Both sides tho.