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How to even find a relationship (lemmy.zip)
submitted 1 month ago by to c/asexual@lemmy.world
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I have strong feelings of disgust and passive agressivness every time a man wants to have sexual advances with me.

It makes me want to crush a glass against their skull, genuinely. I don't do it obvi but I have the intrusive thoughts to physically hurt them every time they start to get sexual even if we're trying to date.

It also makes me lose any sexual attraction. I know you're going to say that I should get with an asexual guy. They're very little around and the few I met still had sexual needs somehow which made me immediately leave and block them.

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[–] 1 point 4 days ago*

Um, at most when a guy who says he's asexual advances I don't get mad, I feel disappointed (like everything he said was bs, which yeah, it was oh well). You sound like you need therapy/intervention, not a relationship right now. Like if a man said he wanted to beat me in the head with a piece of glass if I had made an advance on him, I'd like for him to stay the hell away from me too.

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