egg🫙irl (lemmy.blahaj.zone)
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[–] 2 points 6 days ago* (6 children)

I was married to someone who didn't care which helped but I started by just wearing frillier stuff at home, and sometimes a sports bra with nothing in it under my clothes while going outside. Helped dip my toes in while being covert about it to see what I thought. Also things line Rocky Horror are a great way to go hog wild and play it off "oh it's just a costume for this silly movie thing"

Edit: I know this all depends heavily your home situation and what area you live in

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  • [–] 2 points 6 days ago (5 children)

    I really enjoyed what I tried (makeup). It was the most joy I had felt in years, even despite accentuating some of my "manly" facial features.

    But I could never go any further than than that. I have to perform the role I have been given.

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  • [–] [S] 1 point 6 days ago* (4 children)

    Would you be in danger if you didn't fulfill that role?

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  • [–] 2 points 6 days ago (3 children)

    Probably, in some ways. I don't want to have go to the country I legally belong to but have never lived in. It's probably the worst country in the world.

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  • [–] [S] 1 point 6 days ago (2 children)

    So if you couldn't perform the role of being a guy, you'd be deported?

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