Exactly.

Nobofy can talk about what is best for anyone else unless theyre an expert in the person's specific situation.

Your comment reminded me that I ised to think that the birth control pill was a poison that needs to be banned globally because of that one TedTalk from that lady who said that the birth control pill had poisoned some of her clients

BUT THEN I saw this video from this gynecologist : https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=Eb4-MOubIyM where she talked about how the birth control pill isnt used only for birth control. SOme poeple use the birth control pill for endometriosis. Some people use it for PCOS. Heck, some men or even transitioning men probably use the pill cause of hormonal issues here and there. Basically what she wanted to hammer out was this: "The birth contrpl pill poisons SOME people due to its effects ya ya ya, but the birth control pill is essential to life for other people. Basically humans, despite sharing 99% of the same genetics, are all very different because of that 1%. Some things that poisons some humans will be life-saving for othere humans. HRT is mandatory for some seniors but will absolutely poison most toddlers ....so do we now ban all forms of HRT? Or do we use HRT in a case-by-case basis that experts have either studied and say will help certain people or are currently in the process of conducting studies on?"

One reason why I got my vasectomy was cause I was afraid my future wife or furture girfriend would have negative effects from the birth control pil when I met her.... but Im not an endocrinogist in any way...so how was I supposed to know that the birth contrll pill would have significant negaitve effects on her in particular? I havent even met her yet....so how do I know her situation? lol

What Im trying to say is that the decision to take the birth control pill is like the decisoon to e becoming a parent in some ways. It is up to each person to carefully search their soul AND to seek expert help to determine what is best for them based on their situation.

Nobody ahould feel like theyre being forced to become a parent. nobody should feel like theyre being forced to take the pill.

Case-by-case basis and each persom has to determine if theyre a special case