I call my girlfriend dude. It’s not a gendered name and it’s not meant as an insult either way. And I’m done arguing with you. When there’s a fascist as your opponent:
YOU VOTE AGAINST THE FASCIST.
It’s all hands on deck. I would t give a shit if they candidate was anti people-with-autism-that-live-in apartments-with-a-cat, I’d still vote for them against a fascist.
There is SO much more at stake here than issues that ONLY affect you, chicka. So to answer your question where I draw the line?
Between US and fascism. Period. That’s it- End of fucking story. And there are NO purity tests, and no entitlements on this side of it.