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I don’t want bottom surgery and I hate myself for it. (lemmy.blahaj.zone)
submitted 3 weeks ago by to c/mtf@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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[–] 9 points 3 weeks ago (1 child)

It is perfectly fine if you don't want a surgery, you will remain valid as a woman, no less.

You are not alone and I am sure lot of people here actually do fine without surgery.

As far as I can tell, I repeat, you are valid. Your body your choices. No one will ever have the right to make you feel bad because your body do not fit their standards.

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  • [–] 6 points 3 weeks ago

    In my friend group only 2 of the 10 have had surgery and no one makes anyone feel less than. I said I was complete with my transition once all my name/gender paper work was done and surgery came later. My boyfriend has been with me pre and post surgery. He never pressured me and made sure that he would be with me either way but I had already made up my mind to get it once I had the funds and job stability. Now I'll say I'm poly so having sex with different configurations has been the norm. The only people avoid are Republicans lol

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