As on overall point of sympathy, I've also gotten a lot more picky lately as to the games I've been wanting to invest time into compared to before.
Remember you don't have to always go for the latest and greatest thing everyone is talking about. If you're looking for a snappy experience, just get something like a DSLite with a flash cart, and get game library backups and mods to your hearts content.
*That isn't to say I haven't found games that are just easy to pick up, get going without fuss, keep me engaged for just simple fun. One such example is TMNT Shredder's Revenge, you could call it a spiritual successor to the multiplayer arcade cabinet Ninja Turtles games.