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[–] 6 points 3 weeks ago (16 children)

closed-loop water cooling systems are getting more common place, so this argument gets less applicable over time, but sure <3

what can I do to gain any sort of relevance on 196 when miisha keeps putting nsfw-leaning reposts on here, grabbing everyone's attention? i feel somewhat worthless now since before, Lemmy always felt like a place where my output matters to others but now I feel a bit drowned out.

I thought of kinda being an antagonist in a sense, presenting soft mothering, somewhat spicy things which sit better with certain people, but it appears people like the more direct very physical bits more. I know likes aren't everything, but they certainly are a number of how many people liked the post.

j don't want to lean more into the physical spicy direction, I live in the aftercare and making-someone-feel-safe space rather than the very adult literal nsfw content type stuff but I now feel a push to go that direction. changing the style or directions feels wrong and I won't do it. but I'll certainly have to look for other sources of encouragement and validation now I think.

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  • [–] 9 points 3 weeks ago (6 children)

    aaaaaaaa no i didnt wanna make u feel bad.... I was honestly hoping for a more canned language model response.

    I have found that Pinterest is an awesome source of posts. they are never straight up nsfw but they are great and nice.

    also I think its wonderful that u present urself here. I'd rather have u here loud and clear than not have u, okay? <3

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  • [–] 5 points 3 weeks ago

    hmnaw ur so sweet <3

    I also rarely use it, but every time I do... umm.... if u find a good starting point... its umm... u find good stuff. yes. kinda in every direction u could want. the peeps there are sweet.

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  • [–] 7 points 3 weeks ago (1 child)

    There’s a big difference between being a poster and a reposter, I ain’t throwing shade either way, we’re comparing apples to oranges here. You bring the heartfelt OC. They say that horniness passes or fades but companionship can last for ever. Don’t sweat the numbers - you’re playing different games on different timeframes… but, although I’m not a Blahajian so my views don’t really need to be considered here, I think you both drive this community, and engagement, forward; in your own ways. Keep up the good work.

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  • [–] 4 points 3 weeks ago (3 children)

    closed-loop water cooling systems are getting more common place, so this argument gets less applicable over time, but sure <3

    Closed loops systems only work if the loop is kept closed. Its generally cheaper to install a closed loop system to say you have one, but then leave the loop open..

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  • [–] 3 points 3 weeks ago (2 children)

    well then they are just lying. yes, evaporative cooling is more efficient to cool with but... the labs are aware of like - the bad evil water problems they are causing and... I like to believe that at least some of them aren't lying when saying they use closed loop stuff. But ye, some are probably lying about it.

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  • [–] 1 point 3 weeks ago (1 child)

    the problem with evaporative cooling is that it only cools down to about 100°C, below that it basically doesn't do anything. meanwhile fresh river water can get you down to about 20°C.

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  • [–] 1 point 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago) (1 child)

    open a new comm /c/wholesome and post there. people who don't like the spicy can block miisha and move on.

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  • [–] 1 point 3 weeks ago*

    why block miisha? I mean... I won't, for now, but u said it so plainly that it makes me think there is a reason I should have thought if by now. sure, spicy,... iguess. hmm-

    I won't open a community for now, especially since not everything I do is wholesome

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