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[–] 56 points 3 weeks ago (9 children)

This is really sweet, gosh.

Honestly, these are similar feels to when I see trans girls so giddy over girly things. I love when others want to join the woman club, it's pretty dang cool over here :3

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  • [–] 40 points 3 weeks ago (1 child)

    I didn't realise that cis people could experience gender euphoria until I saw trans women delighting in being a woman. Being in community with trans folk has done wonders for helping me to work through my internalised misogyny, and made me a much better feminist

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  • [–] 5 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago) (4 children)

    What are even girly things, though?

    Edit: Genuine question, although a bit rhetorical too, and in good faith; I'm just a bit of a gender abolitionist myself so...

    Edit 2: Wtf lol, I typed "fightx when I tried to say "faith" lmaoo

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  • [–] 12 points 3 weeks ago (3 children)

    Anything that a girl likes!

    For a more serious answer - I was referring to stereotypical things that are seen as worth less because women are primarily interested in them. My own internalized misogyny kept me away from the color pink for a long time as an example.

    You have a salient point that nothing is really "girly" or "boy-y" and it should be seen that way more often.

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  • [–] 5 points 3 weeks ago (2 children)

    Yeah yeah! I'd just like more people to realize that something is only "girly" or "boy-y" when someone says so, it's arbitrary and not rooted in the nature of things (because things just do exist).

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