You can't change what is beyond your ability to do so, but conversely, be the change that you want to see in the world, like become the kind of person that people just cannot help themselves but smile whenever they see you come around. Be light, be helpful, be kind, and all that jazz - like one way is to just literally smile more and be positive. Don't do it if you don't want to, but I bet if you did, then people would respond more positively to you (okay so not literally everyone but in general some, possibly even most?). At least that's what I'm trying out in my life right now. Bc karma exists, sorta.
Anyway, you do you, but just a heads up that in this particular community we are all about smiles - that's what to expect every time you visit us here 😁. I hope that... maybe... you can't help but smile at that thought, perchance? 😊