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[–] Axeman666@sh.itjust.works 3 points 3 weeks ago (3 children)

Also, I will say it always helps to work out and have social hobbies. Try to go out and do things with people and eventually you will meet someone.

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[–] Kangae_Hishiryo@scribe.disroot.org 2 points 3 weeks ago (2 children)

Thanks for the advice!

The thing is, I really can't work out, I don't have a proper space in my house and I'm just too poor to pay a gym, and also suffer from minor respiratory problems (my nose tends to be very stuffy, and apparently I have rhinitis or something similar); I'd love to, anyway, because also I can feel the pain of the lack of exercise. I'm trying to just go to walk regularly so I at least maintain a minimum of physical activity.

Also, social hobbies... Are though for me. I suffer from social anxiety and I'm heavily introverted too. There are some ones I'd love to try, like anime conventions or electronic music sets, but where I live they're rare because most people here looks at them with bad eyes.

Ahhh, I hate this place.

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[–] Axeman666@sh.itjust.works 3 points 3 weeks ago (1 child)

There are excersizes that you can still do in a limited space. Check some of these out:

https://www.nerdfitness.com/blog/how-to-work-out-in-small-spaces-the-no-space-workout/

https://www.muscleandfitness.com/workouts/workout-tips/6-space-saving-exercises-do-when-gym-packed/

The main point about social hobbies is just pushing yourself to go out where people are and doing things with people. I don't know what to tell you because I don't know where you live, but I'm sure there's something you can do to get out and meet people.

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[–] Kangae_Hishiryo@scribe.disroot.org 2 points 3 weeks ago

I'll take that into account! Ty 🙏🤗

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[–] Axeman666@sh.itjust.works 2 points 3 weeks ago

While I was in high-school I lived in a semi rural state in the US. This was also around 20 years ago. I've lived all over the country though. I can always usually make friends at work or through hobbies.

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[–] Valmond@lemmy.dbzer0.com 4 points 3 weeks ago (1 child)

Just be a decent human being, nice and caring, and you'll see, those "bad boy lovers" will disappear from your dreams!

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[–] Kangae_Hishiryo@scribe.disroot.org 1 point 3 weeks ago

It's not like I'm not like that, or at least I try to be decent, nice and caring. I'm just literally describing what I see everywhere in here. Although I know that's mostly in part because here has been a culture of drug traffickers and criminal gangs since like 15 years ago or so, so I know it's probably not their fault but that they simply grew up with those models of behavior around them.