Lol, sorry if it bothers you that I didn't indulge the fairy tale you made up to create some doubt for this person to benefit from.
Fuck the idea that anyone with kids deserves the benefit of any non-existent doubt. You have the whole rest of the Internet where breeders are assumes to all be perfect martyrs who can do no wrong. Don't bring that insipid shit-smwlling nonsense to the few childfree spaces that exist.