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A question about attraction (pawb.social)
submitted 1 month ago by to c/asktransgender@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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Hi all, I've been thinking about this a while and to be honest I'm a bit confused about it.

I'm a cis gay(?) guy and basically I want to know, is it ok to be attracted to trans women but not cis women? I'm worried that this separation might be considered invalidating?

Also I don't know what label to use for my own sexuality in this case, but maybe labels aren't always straightforward or all that important

Thank you :3

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[+] 11 points 1 month ago (1 child)
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  • [–] [S] 6 points 1 month ago

    Yeah I guess I go to a lot of parties where there are a bunch of cute cis guys and trans girls, and I find them all attractive. One thing in common with a lot of my friends is that we're all quite twinky/feminine in a way, so maybe that's part of what I find attractive (and what contributes to liking the body shapes you mentioned.

    Attraction being evaluated on a case by case basis is a really good way to think about it!

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