That's still wildly presumptuous. Currently what I've seen of dialectical materialism is it being used as a linguistic multitool to confuse and dictate whatever terms are necessary to make your point at tge cost of having to declare your opponent incapable or unwilling to 'learn' or 'understand' what I can only assume at this point is a very clever way to escape a conversation and declare yourself intellectually superior. Not really effective if you're trying to reachput to everyday people.
The fact that you were ready to define away my explainayion on how to rwach people tells me that it doesn't matter to you at all what another person has only that they agree with you at the end, and I think you're deluding yourself if you thknk the smiles and nods are a victory in that case.