You sound like an abusive parent. Probably should seek therapy. You also reminded me of this well worded Tumblr post. Here's the text
Everyone will not just
If your solution to some problem relies on “If everyone would just…” then you do not have a solution. Everyone is not going to just. At [no] time in the history of the universe has everyone just, and they’re not going to start now.
Again. Stop blaming the many, start blaming the few.