Ugh this was so upsetting to read despite being validating.

If I were going to apply this as an analogy to my life it would be like some keys pads were fucked but not all of them. So, not being able to hit some notes was seen as a choice and personal failing. I would have been fine quitting band 😭

Eta: do people realize this is the the ADHD comm? I'm making an analogy, I don't give a fuck about the technical aspects?