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[–] 4 points 1 year ago* (2 children)

Been doing this since the pandemic. And no, it's not a dead bedroom situation, not by a longshot. We just have wildly different circadian rhythms, sleeping habits, we both snore, all of which was leading to consistently interrupted sleep for both of us. This was the only compromise that didn't impact anyone's health. Sharing a bed all the time is romantic, but hardly practical in the long run. Especially when prostatitis and peri-menopause enter the picture.

It's also been a godsend when anyone gets sick. Plus, a ton of decorating options opened up for both of us - it's nice.

Also: the royals do this. With all the wealth the Windsors have, giving everyone their own private suite was where they landed. Makes you think.

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  • [–] 6 points 1 year ago

    The royals often weren’t marrying for love either, though, so I’m sure separate rooms helped with keeping some distance from someone they might not actually like and also made it easier to entertain their paramours.

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