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[–] 2 points 2 months ago* (4 children)

Nope, but I've had several LTRs where that was the breaking point for me.

So, maybe I'm less likely to do that to someone else, knowing all too well what it feels like.

Not like that's the healthiest reason, but yeah. 😢🤷🏼‍♂️

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  • [–] 2 points 2 months ago (3 children)

    Knowing the pain you would cause personally is not a bad reason, it's just confirmation about how hurtful it is which further cements your morals/actions.

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  • [–] 2 points 2 months ago* (2 children)

    100%, for sure! I meant more that the experiences that engendered said outlook weren't healthy to be a part of. If I could go back and simply trust others' wisdom on the same, maybe I'd be better off —though believing I'd do differently is fanciful, tbh. 😅🤷🏼‍♂️ Sometimes, that FAFO is a formidable habit.

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