I ask because I caught myself being a huge hypocrite again.

I'm a millennial and I criticized a Gen Z friend for her constant use of the word 'lowkey.'

I then realized do I not do the same thing? I often say 'sorta' or 'kinda' when I do just mean I did the thing in the same way she uses 'lowkey.'

No, I didn't 'kinda' delete a guy's account at my stupid IT job. I DELETED HIS ACCOUNT! I didn't 'sorta' leave too late for work. I FUCKING LEFT LATE!

So I am a massive fucking hypocrite who needs to just let Gen Z chill and do what the want as I am the same flavor of asshole, but what about you?

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[–] 65 points 2 months ago* (8 children)

Filler words carry meaning, even if they don't have specific definitions in context. Like, "like" has a dictionary definition, but if you use it as, like, a filler word, you aren't using that definition (necessarily), but it still conveys something about how the speaker is thinking. They don't just pop up in speech at random. I like catching them and trying to interpret why speakers insert them where they do.

Like, "lowkey" is usually* sometimes used to soften harsh language e.g. "I'm lowkey gonna murder Sarah if she doesn't stop chewing her gum with her mouth open". Kinda how "kinda" works as a filler to tone down whatever is being said. I don't actually want to murder Sarah, I just kinda want to murder her. I don't even know if I would call them "proper filler words" in the same sense that "like" is, since they do have a particular function that "like" as a filler lacks. More research is needed it seems.

For me, I let 'em fly. If I had to deliver a speech I would probably include fewer than I usually use in casual conversation, but I don't hold with the rule that they're strictly to be avoided. I think they're neat.

* edit: I just know how I've heard it used, I have no idea how it's usually used. I'm lowkey not in the lowkey demographic.

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  • [–] 26 points 2 months ago (4 children)

    I'm lowkey literally gonna murder Sarah.

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  • [–] 4 points 2 months ago (2 children)

    I heard someone use "literally" the other day in a way that made absolutely no sense, even in the not-literally-correct way we've all gotten used to. Almost like its heading for the sort of fits-anywhere role that "fucking" has.

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  • [–] 3 points 2 months ago (1 child)

    I wonder how many fuckings could be fit into a single grammatically correct sentence.

    Fuck is fucking fucked.

    For fuck sake this fuck fucked up the fucking, fucking.

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  • [–] 3 points 2 months ago

    Rocco: Fuckin'- What the fuckin'. Fuck. Who the fuck fucked this fucking... How did you two fucking fucks...
    [shouts]
    Rocco: Fuck!
    Connor: Well, that certainly illustrates the diversity of the word.

    ---The Boondock Saints

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  • [–] 14 points 2 months ago

    “Like” can also be a softener.

    “I ate like 20 corn dogs” is different than “I ate 20 corn dogs.”

    The former means a larger than standard number of corn dogs, maybe six or seven. The latter means twenty.

    It has other practical uses as well.

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