LOCKED: people are getting too heated over a silly meme
go to s/parenting if you want to have a serious conversation about parenting
When a parent gives their child trust, privacy, help, or even a phone, it is an expression of their love, and for it to be healthy it can't be transactional.
A child's clothes are THEIR clothes. A parent guides, helps, and is in charge of it, but it BELONGS to the child. Same goes for ALL their posessions.