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How do I accurately refer to a trans person pre-transition? (lemmy.zip)
submitted 2 months ago by to c/trans@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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For chronological accuracy, I have been using the old name and gender when referring to a past, pre-transition person, and the new name and gender when referring to them generally.

But I had a realisation that this could be considered rude. I'd like to hear from some trans people on their opinion.

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[–] 12 points 2 months ago

Just ask them, I think the more popular consensus is that you use their modern information, but I personally would actually prefer that people use my old information when talking about my younger self. So everyone has their own preference and you should check with them first

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