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Might just be the best possible advertisement for a vasectomy (lemmy.world)
submitted 2 months ago by to c/childfree@lemmy.world
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[–] 19 points 2 months ago (10 children)

Yeah, it’s hard bc a lot of people come in here that are psychotically anti-child.

I like dark humor but this is a space for us to celebrate happiness and breaking away from societal (read:breeder) expectations.

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  • [–] -2 points 2 months ago* (9 children)

    It’s like incel circles - initially it can be a positive community where you’re finding solidarity with others in similar positions. And then, since you’re finding commonality with a shared hatred of a group of people, the posts and ideas being shared devolve into some seriously unhealthy assertions.

    Like children should be murdered if they aren’t being quiet in a public place.

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  • [–] 1 point 2 months ago* (8 children)

    initially it can be a positive community

    since you’re finding commonality with a shared hatred of a group of people

    Uh, first of all, that doesn't sound like a positive community.

    Also, I don't think people here represent themselves as hating a group of people. Even the meme posted (ignoring Casey Anthony) is about hating the situation or behaviour, not hating people for belonging to a group.

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  • [–] 8 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago)

    Positive for the person participating, not necessarily positive in general. Obviously.

    I’ve never come across a childfree community online and have it not revolve around hating children and parents (or “breeders” as I’ve seen this place use).

    Childfree individuals on the other hand, not a problem at all and I fully support everyone’s right to choose what’s best for them. Super supportive of that.

    I was making observations of the childfree groups I’ve had experience with before.

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  • [–] 2 points 2 months ago* (6 children)

    Uhh.. pay better attention dude.

    The OP is literally advocating and wanting that for being disturbed in public places that allow kids.

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  • [–] -2 points 2 months ago (5 children)

    You're choosing to interpret their words from that one comment that way. The rest of their comments don't support your interpretation.

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  • [–] 4 points 2 months ago* (4 children)

    Their post history is public, it’s more of the same crap over and over, if you checked it, you would see that’s an absolute lie.

    Ignore the red flags and think this is a joke if you want.

    But out of curiosity, what’s funny about joking about abusing and murdering children? How would this be taken if it was a picture of a gas chamber or other atrocity instead? What’s your interpretation for finding this “funny”?

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  • [–] -2 points 2 months ago (3 children)

    I looked at their comments in this post (of which there are plenty), I'm not going trawling through their history. They say they didn't know who it was, I also didn't know who it was.

    The expression matches the caption really well, when I realised who it was (my wife let me know after I sent it to her) I definitely had an oof moment.

    It's not a joke I'd have made intentionally, but the willful misinterpreting and embellishing of OP and others in here is crazy. Of course parents are responsible for their screaming kids, and of course they should remove them from situations where they are being disruptive where practical.

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  • [–] 2 points 2 months ago* (2 children)

    So sharing a joke about hitler and gas chambers is okay until the point you know who it is or the context…? That’s… not an okay world view dude.

    Of course parents are responsible for their screaming kids, and of course they should remove them from situations where they are being disruptive where practical.

    It’s a public place, unless there’s specific rules, or management or a worker tells them it’s not okay, you have no right to complain or make a scene. And remove them… to another public place where other people are disturbed….? That’s your solution? Remove the problem from you area?

    Why don’t you get up and go try and help console the kid, see what’s wrong? Help the person? Or can you not handle your emotions like an adult? They’re only being disruptive to a few select people, who can remove themselves, or wear headphones, or maybe don’t go out in public if you are that unhinged and can’t handle some loud children in public….?

    Have some personal accountability. You have adult places you can go, why do you chose to intrude in child allowable spaces than get mad when they act like kids?

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  • [–] -2 points 2 months ago (1 child)

    Who was making jokes about gas chambers? You're doing exactly what I accused people in this thread of, willfully misinterpreting others to create a fantasy steelman. Three paragraphs where you just make shit up whole cloth. Get a fucking grip.

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