I don't hate my dick. I derive a lot of pleasure from it. I really don't experience dysphoria from having one, and in many ways I'm glad that I feel I can integrate my experience of womanhood with having a cock. And yet... I wish I had a pussy. I wish I could finger myself, I wish I could receive penetration vaginally. Yes I've tried anal, yes I've tried muffing. They don't do anything for me. I wish I had access to the rich range of non-anal sex toys available to people who have a pussy.

But it also isn't something that feels like a distressing yearning either? And having such a huge surgery which high risk of complication (I assume?) doesn't feel proportionate or worth it, but I'm also unsure if this is just because the prospect feels so out of reach anyway it doesn't even feel like an option. Because I'll likely never have the money to do that anyway.

To make it worse, I'm chronically ill and very disabled. Signing up to that much (albiet short term) pain, and higher risk of complications with my heart and hEDS, it just makes it all so much more complicated.

Idk what I'm looking for out of this other than: does anyone else relate? lol