you are viewing a single comment's thread
view the rest of the comments
[–] 17 points 2 months ago

One friend sort of explained it to me. It's anxiety. They were afraid they weren't learning fast enough, or were playing badly, or other people were judging them. Fear shuts down the brain. You're explaining to them, "You can take three actions on your turn" but they're not hearing you - they only hear anxiety-fear-screams

Every time this happens, it's worse the next time. It's one more example of "humiliation" on the stack. Even if no one else thought there was anything amiss.

  • source
  • parent