cross-posted from: https://lemmy.dbzer0.com/post/66811433

Transit Rule

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[–] 19 points 3 months ago (17 children)

I'm pro transit but someone hornyposting to the world is NOT an invitation to a real world interaction. Thinking otherwise is called parasocial. You're interacting directly with someone who doesn't know you exist.

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  • [–] 42 points 3 months ago* (13 children)

    I presume it goes: hornypost > flirtatious comment exchange > DM > train ride

    Also, I don't think it's meant to be taken seriously.

    Although if you (generic persons, not specifically targeted at the person i'm replying to) see me hornyposting and somehow live within visiting distance, feel free to hmu. I'm in an open relationship and generally down to try new things 😝

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  • [–] 7 points 3 months ago (8 children)

    You happen to be in Sweden lol?

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  • [–] 12 points 3 months ago (7 children)

    Not even close 😫

    I'm in Central Virginia, USA. Not the worst place to be, but if I had a way to move to the EU i'd take it.

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  • [–] 5 points 3 months ago (3 children)

    Hey, cool! I used to live on both sides of ya. Lol. Grew up in Hampton Roads, VA. Lived in the tri cities, Tennessee for years and years

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  • [–] 8 points 3 months ago (1 child)

    I feel like it's rare to find a lemming anywhere close to where you live, we're such a small and spread out community

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  • [–] 0 points 3 months ago (3 children)

    Perfectly awesome friend, but that is not true for everyone

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  • [–] 8 points 3 months ago (2 children)

    Well obviously 😅

    For one - it's a meme and not meant to be serious.

    But also the point is that assuming that someone does or doesn't want something like this is flawed. Which is why you don't assume, you ask. You express a little bit of interest and see if the other person engages/escalates.

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