It's not temporary. It's only going to get worse as time goes on and they feel less and less need to impress/prioritize you. She is front loading this so much because she's trying to make a get out of jail free card, when things get worse and you confront her about it months down the line.

You're obviously not happy with this dude. Otherwise you would not looking this stuff up on google, you'd be rolling with it like it's not a big deal.