I 1000% get the fully volunteer projects being defensive. They catch a lot of shit for no pay.
But once I asked why they reworked and removed functionality that was easier to use and understand than what they replaced it with and they took me to task about how the person who did it was a volunteer contributor. OKAY, I get that there's still lots of volunteer code submissions but shouldn't the full time employees being overseeing it to make sure changes are improvements in all aspects?
I love the software and I have used it almost since the beginning, but if the community is paying for development and it's the actual livelyhood of the employees, I don't want to hear that I should be happy with what I get because it's "free."