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[–] 12 points 4 months ago

After decades of the telephone being my main work tool and the channel where costumers on the regular behaved like they owned the place, i have developed a intense aversion of even looking at my phone, and anxiety regarding contacting people. That means i suck very much at initiating contact and keeping conversations going.

That doesn't mean i don't think about people i consider important to me - quite contrary, the harder it is for me to reach out, the more i think about the respective person.

So even if you are normally the one initiating contact, don't think you are unimportant to others when they fail at reaching out.

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