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[–] 103 points 4 months ago (7 children)

I went the other route: I set to away until 2030. Now they don't know if I'm really away or not.

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  • [–] 30 points 4 months ago (6 children)

    You are a fucking master mind! I wonder what other secret knowledge you possess, and I'm serious.

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  • [–] 18 points 4 months ago (5 children)

    A buddy of mine at work refuses to ever accept or decline invites - even 1-on-1s with his boss.

    That way it's always a surprise if they are going to show up.

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  • [–] 11 points 4 months ago* (4 children)

    I know a guy like that. It's infuriating because it's a waste of everybody's time when they don't show up. Just decline for fucks sake! At least I can tell the PM that we tried unsuccessfully to schedule and that we have to delay and I can play some video games!

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  • [–] 8 points 4 months ago (3 children)

    If I schedule a meeting and someone doesn't accept that invite I just assume they're not showing up and act accordingly. Might send them a ping a few minutes before hand but if they're a stakeholder and needed for the meeting and choose to ignore the invite(s)/email ... That meeting gonna get cancelled or rescheduled.

    Not that that very often happens but I'd just start bothering said guy about it with pings or email follow ups until they get the picture. Or just cancel the meeting(s) if no response 24 hours before scheduled. Something like that.

    Not even to be petty or annoying just because they should be accepting or declining for the simple fact that everyone else has schedules to keep too. Obviously this advice may be bad or not applicable but yeah that sucks.

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  • [–] 2 points 4 months ago (1 child)

    Unfortunately my PM will say "let's meet and see if X joins otherwise we end earlier". Which means wasting a lot of time. Because X won't join, the PM will start talking about irrelevant stuff, and if we're lucky we waste 15 minutes, or more.

    I just hate this PM.

    What you say is reasonable and is also how I would have handled it. But in this project I have no power and the PM is...just not very good at it.

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  • [–] 2 points 4 months ago

    That sucks. I feel like a lot of stuff is easier and just better without even dealing with a PM - good ones can be worth their weight in gold though if you're dealing with multiple folks on a project and they do their job right.

    Unfortunately, that's very rare.

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  • [–] 1 point 3 months ago

    I don't schedule meetings with people I don't actually interact with. Pretty simple. By the time we are doing synchronous communication, it's because async has hit an effort limit and there's good incentive for everyone to show up.

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