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[–] 1 point 4 months ago

Maybe at some point telling him that you can buy your own things, and that it is not the reason why you're spending time with him, could lead to a more constructive discussion... If you're not afraid to have it, that is

Yeah, plus his reaction to this would be pretty telling. If he takes it with grace then you're probably good. If he gets offended or upset at you expressing some autonomy and ability to take care of yourself, fucking RUN.

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