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[–] 14 points 4 months ago (1 child)

Indeed he is trying to impress you, and spending his money may be a goofy way of telling you how he feels without the need to speak.

He may not know how to word things gracefully, keep in mind that it could be stressful for him as well.

Maybe at some point telling him that you can buy your own things, and that it is not the reason why you're spending time with him, could lead to a more constructive discussion... If you're not afraid to have it, that is

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  • [–] 1 point 4 months ago

    Maybe at some point telling him that you can buy your own things, and that it is not the reason why you're spending time with him, could lead to a more constructive discussion... If you're not afraid to have it, that is

    Yeah, plus his reaction to this would be pretty telling. If he takes it with grace then you're probably good. If he gets offended or upset at you expressing some autonomy and ability to take care of yourself, fucking RUN.

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