▲ 449 ▼ They lived in harmony until they remembered they forgot to eat and got bitchy (lemmy.dbzer0.com) submitted 4 months ago by Stamets@lemmy.dbzer0.com to c/adhd@lemmy.dbzer0.com 39 comments fedilink hide all child comments
[–] tyler@programming.dev 46 points 4 months ago (7 children) Wait what’s support swapping? permalink fedilink source hideshow 7 child comments replies: [+] VGpunx@lemmy.world 65 points 4 months ago (6 children) [deleted] permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 6 child comments replies: [–] SpatchyIsOnline@lemmy.world 20 points 4 months ago (3 children) Damn, here I was thinking it's when someone switches to playing Mercy permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 3 child comments replies: [–] Nouvellalia@lemmy.world 7 points 4 months ago Ze healing is not as rewarding as ze hurting! permalink fedilink source parent [+] VGpunx@lemmy.world 4 points 4 months ago (1 child) [deleted] permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 1 child comment replies: [–] KaChilde@sh.itjust.works 7 points 4 months ago but I’m le tired Then take a nap.. THEN MAKE ZE JOKE! permalink fedilink source parent [–] Macchi_the_Slime@piefed.blahaj.zone 6 points 4 months ago (1 child) This is literally how my partner and I divided our household tasks LMAO I do the stuff she hates doing because it's Meh to me, she does the stuff that I hate doing for the same reason. Like she's fine doing dishes, but HATES putting them away, I'm the exact opposite. I'll put them away all day, I absolutely HATE doing them. Every now and then we both end up feeling super guilty over it because we're both thinking like "Man, I get a WAY better deal out of this. I'm so taking advantage of them..." But we basically reason that as long as we both feel like we're getting a better deal than the other one and we're talking things out with each other it can't be too unfair in reality. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 1 child comment replies: [–] iocase@lemmy.zip 1 point 4 months ago That's the 60/40 rule in action. If you feel like you're doing 60+% of the work in a relationship it's probably roughly 50/50 (as long as they roughly feel the same) We don't always notice all the way that people do things for us, and us to them. permalink fedilink source parent
[+] VGpunx@lemmy.world 65 points 4 months ago (6 children) [deleted] permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 6 child comments replies: [–] SpatchyIsOnline@lemmy.world 20 points 4 months ago (3 children) Damn, here I was thinking it's when someone switches to playing Mercy permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 3 child comments replies: [–] Nouvellalia@lemmy.world 7 points 4 months ago Ze healing is not as rewarding as ze hurting! permalink fedilink source parent [+] VGpunx@lemmy.world 4 points 4 months ago (1 child) [deleted] permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 1 child comment replies: [–] KaChilde@sh.itjust.works 7 points 4 months ago but I’m le tired Then take a nap.. THEN MAKE ZE JOKE! permalink fedilink source parent [–] Macchi_the_Slime@piefed.blahaj.zone 6 points 4 months ago (1 child) This is literally how my partner and I divided our household tasks LMAO I do the stuff she hates doing because it's Meh to me, she does the stuff that I hate doing for the same reason. Like she's fine doing dishes, but HATES putting them away, I'm the exact opposite. I'll put them away all day, I absolutely HATE doing them. Every now and then we both end up feeling super guilty over it because we're both thinking like "Man, I get a WAY better deal out of this. I'm so taking advantage of them..." But we basically reason that as long as we both feel like we're getting a better deal than the other one and we're talking things out with each other it can't be too unfair in reality. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 1 child comment replies: [–] iocase@lemmy.zip 1 point 4 months ago That's the 60/40 rule in action. If you feel like you're doing 60+% of the work in a relationship it's probably roughly 50/50 (as long as they roughly feel the same) We don't always notice all the way that people do things for us, and us to them. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] SpatchyIsOnline@lemmy.world 20 points 4 months ago (3 children) Damn, here I was thinking it's when someone switches to playing Mercy permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 3 child comments replies: [–] Nouvellalia@lemmy.world 7 points 4 months ago Ze healing is not as rewarding as ze hurting! permalink fedilink source parent [+] VGpunx@lemmy.world 4 points 4 months ago (1 child) [deleted] permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 1 child comment replies: [–] KaChilde@sh.itjust.works 7 points 4 months ago but I’m le tired Then take a nap.. THEN MAKE ZE JOKE! permalink fedilink source parent
[–] Nouvellalia@lemmy.world 7 points 4 months ago Ze healing is not as rewarding as ze hurting! permalink fedilink source parent
[+] VGpunx@lemmy.world 4 points 4 months ago (1 child) [deleted] permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 1 child comment replies: [–] KaChilde@sh.itjust.works 7 points 4 months ago but I’m le tired Then take a nap.. THEN MAKE ZE JOKE! permalink fedilink source parent
[–] KaChilde@sh.itjust.works 7 points 4 months ago but I’m le tired Then take a nap.. THEN MAKE ZE JOKE! permalink fedilink source parent
[–] Macchi_the_Slime@piefed.blahaj.zone 6 points 4 months ago (1 child) This is literally how my partner and I divided our household tasks LMAO I do the stuff she hates doing because it's Meh to me, she does the stuff that I hate doing for the same reason. Like she's fine doing dishes, but HATES putting them away, I'm the exact opposite. I'll put them away all day, I absolutely HATE doing them. Every now and then we both end up feeling super guilty over it because we're both thinking like "Man, I get a WAY better deal out of this. I'm so taking advantage of them..." But we basically reason that as long as we both feel like we're getting a better deal than the other one and we're talking things out with each other it can't be too unfair in reality. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 1 child comment replies: [–] iocase@lemmy.zip 1 point 4 months ago That's the 60/40 rule in action. If you feel like you're doing 60+% of the work in a relationship it's probably roughly 50/50 (as long as they roughly feel the same) We don't always notice all the way that people do things for us, and us to them. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] iocase@lemmy.zip 1 point 4 months ago That's the 60/40 rule in action. If you feel like you're doing 60+% of the work in a relationship it's probably roughly 50/50 (as long as they roughly feel the same) We don't always notice all the way that people do things for us, and us to them. permalink fedilink source parent