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he might be using me to fulfill his younger woman fantasy, but I’m also using him to fulfill my daddy fantasy, so we’re even (lemmy.world)
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[–] -1 points 4 months ago* (last edited 4 months ago) (8 children)

Just being on FetLife will show you plenty of women in their 50s in pretty good shape.

I don't understand why you believe that women like this don't exist other than celebrities (which was like pulling teeth to get you to admit, I might add). I'm aware that most of society believes that older women are useless and thus invisible to the male gaze, but Jesus Christ, dude - is it really true to this extent for you?

Edit: Kisses to my stalker today, thanks for the downvotes! I love that you take the time to dutifully go through my post history and downvote each comment. Shows you really love me <3

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  • [–] 4 points 4 months ago (7 children)

    You seem to be deliberately missing the part where I said 'in my local area'.

    In my local area... no, so far in my experience using fetlife, you are wrong.

    The woman I am talking about is absolutely exceptional in terms of physique, compared to her peers in the same area, I have yet to see anyone comparable... though of course, again as I previously said... I've only just started using the site.

    Sure, if I look ... across everyone on the entire site, everywhere, then yes, I will most likely see more 55 yo women who have great physiques.

    But I don't live in New York or LA or Paris or something.

    I live in a 'city' with a population significantly under 500k, and its a poorer city, in a poorer state.

    You are the one who decided that what I originally said and meant was 'no 55 yo women exist who have exceptional physiques'. You interpreted it that way, ignoring pertinent context and then explicit statements from myself where I made every attempt to explain that no that is not what I meant...

    ... and you are trying to spin this as extracting a confession from me.

    This is bad faith in the extreme.

    I also never said that most older women are invisible to me. I talk to a fair number of older women in my apartment... somewhat regularly, when we pass in the halls or what not. I enjoy their conversation, occasionally I help them out with some kind of chore type task, they help me out with some kind of chore... I just am not generally sexually attracted to them.

    I explictly said that it would be ridiculous to have the same physical expectations for a 30 yo and 55 yo woman, yet you persist in insulting me and painting me as a misogynist who thinks all old women are ugly.

    Also, I'm not the one downvoting you. Somebody else is doing that. You could verify this if you wanted to, I believe there are tools by which possible to do that on lemmy, or you could ping a mod or admin if you really want, i think they could as well.

    I hope you do not consider it 'stalking' to reply to a conversation chain that you started and are continuing.

    People can be 'not in 100% agreement with you' and not be a stalker-misogynist.

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  • [–] -1 points 4 months ago (3 children)

    People can be ‘not in 100% agreement with you’ and not be a stalker-misogynist.

    I wasn't calling you a stalker-misogynist unless you're the one downvoting every single comment I make.

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  • [–] 2 points 4 months ago* (last edited 4 months ago)

    For the record, I'm aware some of my opinions are deeply unpopular here. I still don't call you a "shit person" because I might disagree.

    You'd be hard pressed to find any comments of mine that are as rude as yours here.

    Edit: Wow, that moderation history of yours sure is something lol

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  • [–] -2 points 4 months ago (2 children)

    I live in a city that isn't even at 250k population and see plenty of regular women over 55 that are fit.

    I simply don't believe you that out of hundreds of thousands of people, there's no middle aged women that are fit in your city. It's not believable.

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