what i'm getting at is, your social disguise is going to mostly be effective on people who rely on appearances to judge the interior quality of things (including people). You will turn away high quality people who can see through your disguise, and to retain around you people who either can't tell between you and the mask or don't care. It's a good survival strategy but not a good way to find deeper, worthy relationships.
If i wanted to be a little more cryptic and spooky about it i'd say something like 'there is no 'real' you under the masks, it's just masks on top of masks all the way down, the stack of masks in a literal sense is the reality of you.'