Having a preference and whining are not the same thing.

Things that are fine to say in relevant social contexts:

• You look really cute without makeup.
• I prefer lighter makeup.
• I love heavy makeup looks.
• I have sensory issues and can't stand the smell of makeup at all.

Things that are creepy to say in any context:

• Women use makeup as a lie to trick men.
• I want a traditional woman who doesn't paint her face like a clown.
• I don't know how she expects to attract a man when she's not even putting in any effort to do basic makeup.
• I bet she's really ugly without all that makeup.