lemmy
the dev rimu banning people and people getting mad about it
Let's be honest, Lemmy devs are also known to be banning a lot.
If you were not using the Piefed features (personal feeds, crossposts comments consolidation, flairs, instance blocking) then going back to Lemmy makes sense.
It doesn't really matter in the end, all the communities are still available on all sides (with Mbin)