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[–] 16 points 5 months ago* (10 children)

I’d be so insulted but for some reason C seems to be okay with it since they’re still hanging around. I thought maybe they’d come to their senses but guess not and they’re okay still be hidden.

I couldn’t imagine being hidden like that even as just a friend, they really could’ve played up the friends who fell in love angle but hiding C throughout the whole thing just makes it shady 🤷🏻‍♀️ but Bird is a liar and manipulator who will tell all her followers she was hiding this to nourish the relationship or some bs that they’ll fall for.

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  • [–] 14 points 5 months ago* (1 child)

    I think it's cruel and reeks of internalized homophobia and shame. Sarah fears losing her white/hetero privilege. Sarah probably justifies it to C by saying, "I've learned to keep this part of my life private." Meanwhile, you know if Sarah dated a notable man, she'd be shouting it from the rooftop.

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  • [–] 12 points 5 months ago* (last edited 5 months ago)

    Oh I 100% agree. C is very very foolish to let Bird do this to them, but I’m sure Bird manipulated them as she does everyone else.

    And you’re sooooo right. If she was dating a man we’d 100% know about it already and she’d be going on about how he saved her blah blah blah. But C just gets hidden because Bird is a POS.

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  • [–] 13 points 5 months ago

    “I share everything with you guys so please understand I had to keep something just for me. I hope you understand” OR “I thought maybe everyone would turn on me so I was terrified to share this news with you all” OR “it took me some time to process the death of one relationship while being so in love in another”. Whatever lie that can be spun to garner attention from will def be the script.

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  • [–] 13 points 5 months ago (6 children)

    I agree and it doesn’t make sense when 🐦was crying over C on traitors and said she’s my best friend! If she’s really a best friend, why is she hidden?

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  • [–] 11 points 5 months ago (3 children)

    Terribly toxic to make a “best friend” in a week. Yea I’ve had instant connections with people that eventually stayed in my life and have become a best friend. But we weren’t calling each other besties in a matter of days.

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  • [–] 7 points 5 months ago

    toxic is exactly it. sarah has called countless people her “best friend” over the years (including her most recent ex-husband, who she almost certainly cheated on). and how many of these “best friends” are even in her life anymore? it's very typical for narcissists to cycle through intense friendships and lack the ability to sustain long-term friendships.

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