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Anon carpools (sh.itjust.works)
submitted 6 months ago by to c/greentext@sh.itjust.works
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[–] 98 points 6 months ago (3 children)

I'd pay the 0.50 euro as soon a possible without a word.

Then never offer to drive to do anything with them again.

I've found that people who do this are either doing it as a joke and will let you know right away .... or they are dead serious and it's the kind of person you really want to avoid in every kind of way.

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  • [–] 15 points 6 months ago

    Eh. Yeah, but at least you know where you stand with them, and everything will be strictly business. If there's some business-like value to keeping the relationship, then just treat it like a business relationship, and see how it goes. I wouldn't bail on someone like this for that alone, but I wouldn't hang out with them as friends either.

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  • [–] 4 points 5 months ago

    Yep, exactly.

    If they can have a sense of humor about it, probably a decent, if cheeky, somewhat assholish, but maybe in an endearing / self-aware way, kind of person.

    If they cannot?

    Avoid avoid avoid avoid avoid.

    They're an entitled manipulator, and have absolutely no respect for you.

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