Sounds like you've been listening to Linux Unplugged, ha. Drive support is generally good in my experience. If you're going to buy one for writing, then I'd also recommend one that can be flashed with Libredrive. That way you can also rip encrypted BluRays and store them without DRM.
I haven't used burning software in a long time, but you may have issues getting them in a format that will just play back normally on players, especially if you put a bunch of movies on one disc. I think they need some sort of menu system, but maybe some burning software can build a rudimentary one? idk
Optical archival storage is tempting right now because of the price, though it definitely is more of an archival solution. Good for long term cold backups, but not great for any data that needs to change, even infrequently.